Q and A with Gray Oak

As we've navigated this first year of business...technically first 6 months...we've started to hear some of the same questions about our design process and interior design in general. Today we thought it could be helpful, and maybe even fun, to answer some of these questions about how Sonia, Michele and I get our design on. Here we go...

Question - "Do all three of you work on projects together?" 

Answer - YES! We do! We think this is one of the biggest benefits that set us apart from other design teams: clients get three unique, creative perspectives packaged in one, cohesive vision. To streamline our process, there's always a project lead who is the primary point of contact for a client and takes the reigns on major decisions. But, it is very much a collaboration.  

 
 

Question - "How do you decorate a house in a style that's not your style?"

Answer - It's not as tricky as you might think. In fact, decorating out of our own design style is usually when we have the most fun. Between Michele, Sonia and I, we have three different personal styles, but we also all love good design in whatever form it takes. A good parallel is fashion. I think we've all admired the clothes of someone else at one time or another, even if we knew it was something we wouldn't wear ourselves. It's the same for interior design. You decorate your home in a certain style because it suits your space and budget and, simply, makes you feel comfortable. But, that doesn't mean you don't walk into a friend's home, which is decorated completely different, and genuinely admire their style...maybe even covet their kitchen island pendants. We love tapping into our clients' aesthetic and creating the style and function that means "home" to them.

 
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Question - "Should I wait to get an interior designer until my kids are older?"

Answer - Nope. We are all moms to young kiddos. Between the 3 of us, our oldest is 8 and our youngest will be born early 2018! Being part of young, busy families, we deeply understand and appreciate the importance of practicality in design. We'd venture to say that designing for families is where we shine. We think about who is going to use the space, whether their hands will be covered in goo or their walking skills are still on the upswing. The goal isn't to have a magazine-worthy home at all hours of the day, the goal is to have a beautiful home that works for the way your family uses it and can be gorgeously pulled together/put away for guests and hosting and special occasions. In other words, we don't follow the "kids can't go in this room ever" style of decorating. 

 
 

Question - "How do you choose paint colors?"

Answer - We do a lot of research, we stay on top of trends and we get samples! Whether we get large pre-painted swatches or actually paint little patches on a wall, we try the color in the room before we commit. The amount of natural and artificial light in a room has a huge impact on how a color will read and sometimes one color can appear totally different in two different rooms. With that being said, we have also become well-versed in some staple neutrals that look great in just about any home. 

 
 

Question - We get a lot of technical questions about furniture height and curtain length and crown molding shape. Yes, most of these questions are from our moms, looking for some free advice, but we think a lot of people have these type questions and wonder how they play into interior design. 

Answer - Part of interior design is understanding and implementing the little, technical elements of design that make a world of difference in the practical use of a room. Having a seriously gorgeous rug under your dining room table doesn't outweigh the annoyance of pulling your dining chair out and having 2 legs on the rug and 2 legs off the rug and being off balance and spilling your soup. A proportionally sized rug is functionally important and it also looks great. When we design a space we prioritize beauty, of course, but we do so within the context of what functionally works for the space (ceiling height, window size, etc.). 

And that's that...for now. If you have any burning questions about our design process or interior design in general, fire away! Thanks for reading.

- Leah

 

 

 

 

Holiday Gift Guide - Sonia's Picks

We hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving! 

Who is OVER turkey? First there's the real deal roast turkey on Thanksgiving, then there's turkey soup and then turkey sandwiches and then...more turkey soup. So. much. turkey. Anyone get creative and make turkey meatballs or turkey pot pie with their leftovers? 

Sonia is wrapping it up today with her gift picks for this holiday season (click here for Michele's picks and here for Leah's picks). With Thanksgiving officially behind us, holiday gift shopping is on. Sonia has some amazing ideas for you and with today being cyber Monday, it's THE day to get gift shopping handled. 

First up are ideas for your sister, mother-in-law, neighbor who walks your dog, mailwoman who hates Dunkin Donuts giftcards, or...you (no shame in having a wish list!!!).

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1. 2018 planner - Help her start the new year right. You can't go wrong with this chambray striped planner.

2. Jar candle - Nothing comes close to the scent of this peppermint candle - so festive. And bonus, it's on sale, which is unheard of for this beauty.

3. Do One Thing Every Day That Centers You: A Mindfulness Journal - Great little journal for anyone in your life who could use a bit of ommmm, which around this busy time of year is just about everyone.

4. Birch candles - These candles come in an assortment of sizes and will be sure to make any holiday party a bit more festive.

5. "You're Amazing" and "I Know" mugs - This set of black and gold mugs are a fun and cheeky addition to any coffee lovers collection.

6. Trinket dish - Who couldn't use a colorful trinket dish to help corral all the little odds and ends that collect on your kitchen counter?

 

And here are her picks for home related gifts.

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1. Cake stand - Pile this blue and gold plate up with some tasty holiday cookies and it will make any hostess's day!

2. Snack bowl - MoMA has partnered with Nordstrom to offer select items in their stores, and this "flooded" snack bowl is on my wish list!

3. Candle holder - I love this metal candle holder,  gifted with some white tapered candles and you'll be good to go.

4. Alphabet cookie cutters - For those who like to give gifts that include experiences, these cookie cutters will offer hours of fun for any bakers in your life.

5.. Cable knit faux fur throw blanket - In a neutral beige, this knit and fur blanket will be a cozy addition to any living room.

 

Instead of gifts for him, Sonia rounded up some amazing kid gifts. I think the toddler apron from Anthropologie might be my favorite...and going under the tree for each of my daughters this year (thanks Sonia!).

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1. Race car - High quality wooden toy car that will keep little hands busy playing for hours. 

2. Unicorn doll - If your little lady is as into unicorns as mine, then this plush little number will be sure to bring some holiday smiles. 

3. View master classic - You can't go wrong with this classic, it's made children happy since the 1970's.

4. Wooden dollhouse - Because I would have loved this sweet black, white, and green doll house when we were kids, I'm are betting that little ones nowadays will love it as well.

5. Toddler apron - All hands on deck during the baking season, deck your little helper out in this floral apron and get baking!

6. Pom pom canvas bin - This canvas bin will come in handy to help control the post holiday toy explosion.

7. Magnetic tiles - Kids of all ages love playing with magnet tiles, so do yourself a favor and put out a bin of these colorful tiles at your holiday feast and keep the kids table entertained. 

 

Thanks to Sonia for this great round-up and happy Cyber Monday to you! Hope you scoop many, many fantastic bargains.

- Leah

Holiday Gift Guide - Leah's Picks

We're back with more holiday gift ideas and today they're MY favorites (Leah...that's me). Like Michele's picks, I have 3 categories of goodies for you: Home, Her and Him. I gave you all sorts of price points and truly would love to own each and everything on my list, which I think is the best read on whether you're giving a good gift - do you want it yourself.

Here are my picks for the home - his home, her home, their home...your home...

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1. Faux Fur Throw - Cozy and a little glam. This is a great gift because most wouldn't spend this much on themselves for a throw blanket ($79), but everyone wants this throw blanket. 

2. Bird Water Globe - A plant in a beautiful planter with this self-watering globe would make the perfect gift for just about anyone, including those hard-to-gift family members...we all have them.

3. Echo 2.0 by Amazon - I own the first edition and I'm obsessed. My whole family is. My favorite part of morning routine is when my daughter asks Alexa to tell her a dinosaur fact. While I don't know as of yet, I'd be willing to wager that Amazon is going to put these guys on sale for black Friday later this week. 

4. Illustrated Globe - This little globe (comes in 4" and 9" ) is from Target (great price point) and there are a ton of places to pick from: London, Hong Kong, Amsterdam, San Francisco, Washington DC, New York, Chicago, LA and USA. It's just such a sweet gift for someone with a special connection to one of these great places.

5. Daphne Stemless Wine Glasses by American Altelier - Don't these scream CELEBRATE!!! So fun and fancy.

6. Utensil Holder by Rae Dunn - I'm fully on the Rae Dunn bandwagon. I own about 6 of her mugs (you can find them at TJMaxx/Marshalls/HomeGoods) and they're as stylish and sturdy as they look online. This canister full of fun utensils would make a great gift for a new homeowner. 

7. Wooden Candle Holder - Two of these sweet, simple, rustic candle holders with two tapered candles would rock a secret santa.

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1. Classic Retro-X Waterproof Vest by Patagonia - This classic Patagonia vest won't go out of style. It looks great and it's truly warm.

2. The Ultimate Ski Book - My husband is a big skier and this book would make him giddy. It's also a beautiful coffee table book, which I can totally appreciate.

3. Travel French Press by Bodum - For a serious coffee aficionado, french pressed coffee is the ticket. This travel mug is also a french press. Boom.

4. eTip Apex ClimateBlock Gloves by The North Face - Every New Englander needs a legit pair of gloves. These are low profile and perfect for cleaning off a car on an icy morning.

5. Hooded Cotton Sweater - Doesn't this sweater look perfectly casual and comfortable? And it's super reasonably priced.

6. Larimer Crew Socks by Smartwool - Stuff his stocking with these stockings...errr, socks. Seriously though, Smartwool knows their socks. They keep your feet warm and cozy in all weather, and on your couch. 

Finally, gifts for her.

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1. iPhone case by Sonix - I have a Sonix case for my phone and I love it. It's so sturdy and so feminine. 

2. Monogram gem necklace - I love colorful accessories because I don't dress very colorfully. I picture this jeweled necklace over a simple white t-shirt and it makes me smile. 

3. One line a day journal - For the woman who wants to feel inspired and get a little deeper in 2018, but (like most of us) doesn't have time for meditation or yoga or spiritual retreats. Writing just one line a day (or every couple days) in this beautiful book will make her feel like she's moving in the right direction.

4. Air max thea knit sneaker by Nike - Like many, I'm all over fashion sneakers. I also can't justify buying another pair. But, if they were a gift...

5. Striped infinity scarf - Again with the colorful accessory. Great contrast for your standard black winter coat and so cozy.

6. Smith's rosebud tin gift set - This is my favorite lipgloss, it gives the perfect shine. It feels great and smells delicious. 

7. Metallic shopper - I don't consider myself very girly, but there's something about rosegold that has my heart. This big ole tote is so cool and so practical and so reasonably priced.

Stay tuned for Sonia's picks next week! And good luck mentally and physically preparing yourself for Thanksgiving. I fully plan to take down an entire pie. I'll stretch it over the course of 48 hours...maybe 72...but it's gonna happen. 

- Leah

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